Let the Love Doctor Helps You Find Your Perfect One
DeAnna Lorraine or ‘The Love Doctor’ will address to dating dilemmas in her 1-day dating workshops which will take place in Dubai in the coming few days. DeAnna is America’s top dating coach.
Before making any decision about your ‘One’, can do a little bit of soul search, suggests DeAnna. As told by commentator of ‘Good Morning America’ “You cannot attract a committed relationship if you yourself are not ready and willing to commit. A lot of people say that they want one, but their actions speak otherwise,” says the ‘Good Morning America’ commentator. “Try online dating websites in Dubai; try looking in places that you would not normally think of… and if you don’t plan to stay here long term, then be honest with people when you meet them.”
Before going to parties, night clubs, and buy branded clothing, one should try to go to a place where both the members of a couple can share their ideas, interest and have a healthy conversation for better understanding of each other. You can have such scenarios in religious or community gatherings, and hobby classes.
The location or the setting does work in your favor, but only small percent. Rest you have to do on your own. If you can’t talk well, then no matter where you sit, it won’t help at all. If you are a guy and going on a date, observe your date well, comment or compliment her dress or way of talking. Crack some jokes, give witty replies girls like that, but don’t exaggerate as doing it over the limit takes off the interest of the person from you. Just do it so as to give her the idea that you are funny, witty and got a good personality.
Advice for the girls from DeAnna, “A woman can never do the asking out. It’s still too forward. You can give hints, and if a man is really paying attention he will take the clue.” She says that men need to be the leader. They need to show some assertiveness. You can work on this by opening doors for her, making strong decisions. For instance “How about I pick you up at 7 pm on Friday night?” Show her that you are a man with a plan. A gentleman acting and dressing conservatively looks enticing. DeAnna says, “A man wants to see you as a woman that he wants to bring home to mum… Be a lady, leave something to the imagination, leave some mystery.”
Nowadays, dates are influenced by the internet and ‘dating’ apps. Tinder app is monopolizing the worldwide dating market, millions of people are easy to date and to find through this revolutionary application that let you find out app members near you. You can get multiple options to choose from these apps, but remember, you only need one for the whole life. Where these apps provided the variety, they also decreased the chances of deep, long lasting relationships. Finding a date is easy, but staying in a relationship for lifelong is what difficult is nowadays.
You have to understand the fact that people are not replaceable. Things are used not people. They are same as you with real emotions and feelings. In UAE and Dubai parents are often involved in the process of dating. This was good at some limit, but this doesn’t mean that you as an individual have to sit back. Step up; don’t let them do all the work for you. It is your relationship you are going to live your whole life with that person. Tell them personality traits, must-haves, you want in your partner. Don’t be too rigid on such checklist. Just have an overview of what you want.
DeAnna suggests that “Rather than focusing on what you want them to look like physically, such as six foot tall with six-pack abs, be more focused on how you want to feel in the relationship. I want to feel appreciated. Do I want to feel playful? Then work out common values, such as how you view money and want to raise kids.”
Now, finding the true is not the sole purpose, maintain it through life is important. Dr. DeAnna complains that people lose the passion and commitment the course of it. This becomes interesting when you start living and feeling young, not as individuals but as a couple. Always keep the spark on between you and your partner. Always keep recreating the painting of your relationship. Of course it’s easy to say and difficult to translate in practice but you can make it!
Meet DeAnna Lorraine, relationship and dating coach is holding dating coaching workshops in Dubai on Monday for women and Friday for men. She also offers private dating coaching sessions @ Deannalorraine.com